
Anxiety can be exhausting & debilitating if not managed well. Many find it can become more bothersome before bed, with the evening hours gradually ramping up stress and anxiety. Both issues can be incredibly damaging, and both may be all the more prevalent this year given the stress of the Covid19 pandemic. Mental and physical health go hand in hand, and these things shouldn’t be underestimated.
I personally have diagnosed high anxiety that requires medication and other tools to manage. Always see your GP if you are struggling, and speak to them about other treatments if you have diagnosed anxiety that’s not manageable.
This guest post takes a look at a few tips for how to reduce and better manage that night time anxiety so that you can rest more peacefully.
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Anxiety At Night Keeping You Up?
In today’s fast-paced way of life, stress levels have increased and many people experience significant anxiety at night.
Chronic stress, worries about the future, relationship breakdowns, and pressure at work are some of the causes of nighttime anxiety.
Turning off the lights, jumping into bed and hoping to get to sleep is not so easy when dealing with anxiety. Having panic attacks at night is common. This can significantly impact your quality of sleep, causing you to feel burned-out during the day.
So, let’s look at ways to calm your mind and body to prevent, or even overcome nighttime anxiety once and for all.
Practice Breathing Techniques
Many breathing techniques exist, but ultimately they all serve one purpose: to calm your mind and body. If you experience a panic attack, avoid fighting it and focus on your breathing.
Try inhaling deeply for 5 seconds, and hold your breath for another 5. Then exhale for another 5 seconds. Aim to repeat this process in sets of 3. You may start to notice a profound change in your heart rate, and sense of tranquility.
It’s the simplest method to relax, and the best thing of all, it costs nothing.

Consider Herbal Remedies, Supplements & Prescription Medications
Valerian root and Chamomile contain properties which calm the nervous system and help treat symptoms of depression and anxiety. Drinking a herbal tea consisting of at least 1 hour before going to bed can ease the body into a relaxed state.
Other supplements such as Melatonin and Magnesium are popular alternatives to prescription medications. CBD supplements, such as CBD Flower, are gaining more recognition as studies have revealed a vast array of cannabinoids that can improve anxiety symptoms.
For some people, prescription medication is needed. Always speak to your doctor if you’re dealing with anxiety that is disturbing your life, especially if general tips don’t help. Your doctor will be able to talk to you about what you’re going through and discuss any potential medication options. There are various forms of medication that can help when it comes to managing mental health, but these are usually seen as a later option after other tactics have been tried or if the anxiety is more severe. The online world makes investigating medications and getting them delivered all the more convenient, such as services like the Simple Online Doctor where you can get your prescription medication delivered to your home.
Always speak to your doctor before taking any kind of supplements, especially if you have pre-existing health conditions or take other medications. Don’t be afraid to approach your doctor if you need further support or feel you might need to try prescription medication. It can take some trial and error to find what best works for you, whatever tactics, supplements or medications you try.
Turn Off Your Smartphone
Unless you have a playlist of music lined up to help you fall asleep, your smartphone should remain out of sight. Constantly checking your Facebook, Twitter or Instagram feed, will over stimulate your mind.
Furthermore, electronic screens emit blue light, which can interfere with your body clock.
During daylight hours, your body produces cortisol to help you remain awake and alert. At nighttime, melatonin is produced which enables you to fall asleep.
Exposing yourself to blue light after you’ve climbed into bed can disrupt your body producing enough melatonin, as well as your sleep cycle stages. Both slow-wave and rapid-eye movement (REM) are significant stages of your sleep cycle which impact on your cognitive functions.

Avoid Caffeine Before Sleeping
Caffeine is a powerful stimulant. Drinking one cup of tea or coffee can boost your energy and alertness. It can help you charge through a hard day’s work, or improve your athletic performance.
However, your body can take at least 6 hours to recover from that one blast of caffeine. If you suffer from night time anxiety, it’s best to avoid any caffeinated beverages in the evening.
Listen To Relaxing Music To Dampen Night-Time Anxiety
Music can be a powerful sleeping aid, as sound waves affect the regulation of hormones, such as cortisol.
Your body’s heart rate synchronises with the tempo of music. Genres of music in the range of 60 to 80 BPM (beats per minute), such as classical, soft piano pieces, or relaxing ambient sounds are perfect options..
Binaural beats is another form of audio stimulation. These sound frequencies can influence our brain chemistry by releasing dopamine, which gives us a sense of pleasure. They also help our brain enter the Theta brainwave state which induces sleep.

Do you find anxiety to be problematic at night?
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35 comments
These are excellent suggestions, thank you!
It’s a great guest post, I’m glad you liked it too! Hope you have a great week ahead ????
I have been jumpy I have noticed in these last two weeks at night. So it’s affecting sleep. Sometimes my sleep is disturbed 2 or 3 times some nights.
It’s not helped by sugary food. Although I have stress and anxiety, I have had extra sugary items during this time, so I know that has contributed to it.
I’m sorry you’ve been feeling extra jumpy at night lately & experiencing disturbed sleep. I’m lucky in being okay with sugary food but I know for some people it can be a trigger for mood, sleep and even migraines. Hopefully reducing sugar or maybe eating it earlier in the day will help a little. Do you have a nighttime routine at the moment? I’m not sure if it’ll work for you but I try to stick to using hand cream and reading my book for at least 20 minutes to help calm me down first. I hope you get some better sleep in the next week, Liz ???? xx
I keep meaning to turn off my smartphone before bed but then I use Kindle a lot, and I love reading before turning in. No wonder I have trouble falling asleep.
Do you have your phone on silent so you don’t get any pings? That’s better than nothing & turning it face down. I hadn’t read an eBook until this year with the library’s shut down and now I’m hooked – but of course the screen light isn’t ideal at night. I try turning it to a lower setting, which is much better. Might be worth adjusting if you find the light perks you up rather than helps you nod off. I’m the same though, I have to read before sleeping. xx
This is terrific advice…luckily, I have never had this issue, but can imagine how difficult it must be…
I’m glad you’ve not had any issues around night-time anxiety, John. I hope it stays that way! ????
ugh – nights are worst for me, especially when I wake in middle of night, stressed about getting back to sleep – the very idea of possible anxiety can make me anxious… I’ve been keeping a log, which helps some, I think because it helps me remember not just the terrible times — tx for great post, dear Caz 🙂
It’s rough, isn’t it? I’m sorry your nights are often plagued by anxiety, da-AL. A journal of some kind is a great idea, and there are other ways to try to calm yourself before bed. I personally find distractions to be good, like I try to have a little routine with hand cream then reading for at least 20 minutes to calm me down and take my mind off other things. I hope you can find something that works for you in a similar way so you can get some more peaceful nights ???? xx
anxiety is the worse at night when everything is quiet. I hear everything. These are great tips thank you xx
The silence can be deafening sometimes, can’t it? I hope the tips can help – Fingers crossed you get some better sleep next week with less night-time anxiety ♥
When I was a teenager I had post-viral fatigue, I slept a lot but struggled to get to sleep. I used to listen Elgar’s cello concerto on repeat all night, so much so that the CD was marked from use. Calming music definitely helped me to switch off.
Sounds like you got a lot of use out of that CD. I’m glad you found something to help. Music can be a ‘balm for the soul’ in the way nothing else can quite match. x
Ever since “The Event” I every once in a while have this thing where I get really extreme anxiety for no apparent reason, usually early in the morning, which then comes and goes throughout the day. When that happens I pretty much know I might as well just get up and get the day going, because I’m not going to be getting any more sleep. (Anxiety is a very common symptom after a SAH, affecting around 40% of survivors. I’m pretty fortunate that it seems to be the only lingering effect from mine.)
I’m sorry anxiety has been an unwanted result of the SAH. I personally find the same as you with night anxiety that it can go past the point of no return, where I simply have to get up and get busy. I hope you can find ways to manage it or minimise the effects, whether it’s having things to do to keep you busy when it gets bad or being able to nap in the day to make up for lost zzzs. x
All great ideas Caz. Sometimes gentle exercise helps because I think we build up so much stress during a busy day. Also meditation helps to quiet the brain.
I’m glad you liked the guest post, thanks, Michele. Exercise is a good one for getting out some stress from our systems and resetting ourselves. It’s a shame so many aren’t able to get walks in at the moment because of the pandemic but hopefully those shielding will be able to get back to fresh air and gentle walks in the near future. xx
These are all great suggestions, Caz. I am fortunate that I don’t often suffer from anxiety, but I’m human and I get those occasional nights when things get to me. Then lack of sleep kicks in and it all spirals. Breathing exercises really do help me when that happens.
That’s the thing with anxiety; in theory, as evolutionary tools go, it’s designed to be helpful, but like many maladaptive traits it can become dangerous when it’s faulty and anxiety runs rampant all the time. I’m glad it’s not a big factor in your life, and I hope those nights are few and far between when it does get to you. You’re right about that spiral, it can be a very tricky one to break. xx
You are amazing, Caz. Your suggestions, if put to use, could be life savers for those afflicted.
I suffered from panic attacks for almost a decade and these debilitating episodes were the main reason I began to deep breathe and meditate; two enormously helpful stress reduction techniques.
xoxoxo
I’m sorry you had such an awful time with panic attacks, Carolyn. They really are horrible to go through, and even though you get used to the sensations, they don’t get any less horrible. I’m glad you’ve found both deep breathing and meditation to be beneficial. Two fantastic techniques for our wellbeing. Thank you for the comment lovely xx
Those are great suggestions, Caz! Because it’s true that our troubles always seem worse at night, and so coping mechanism are enormously helpful. Thank you!
Thanks, Ann. I’m really glad you liked the guest post! x
I keep my phone just out of arms reach at night now and wind down before bed, a few stretches, sometimes a naughty hot chocolate, a good book. I also started using CBD last year and found that helpful for anxiety in the day and it’s calming to use before bed as well. I also have a rollerball and pillow spray that I don’t think do much but they’re lovely to use. I might have to try breathing exercises next!
That’s a great mini good mini routine before bed. I love a good book & a hot choccy! I know a lot of people find CBD to be quite calming for anxiety and sleep purposes so I’m glad it’s beneficial. I’ll join you with starting on the breathing exercises next, sounds like a good plan! xx
What a great post, Caz! I keep forgetting to have herbal tea at night…Thank You for the reminder. And playing ambient noise or peaceful music is a great suggestion as well. Thank You for ALL of these suggestions and reminders!!! May we all have wonderful, healing sleep!!! ????❤️????
That’s a good point on the ambient nose, there are also those sleep sound machines that could work well for those that like actual sounds rather than music. Herbal tea is one I forget about as well but I bet a chamomile tea would be pretty soothing. I’m glad you liked the post, Katy – thanks for the lovely comment! ♥ xx
Great post Caz! I personally find the chamomile tea and magnesium supplements help me to relax. Breathing also helps a lot and all other tips like not looking on the phone at night time and of course avoiding caffeine. I hope you are having a good day.
A cup of chamomile sounds like a lovely way to wind down, and I’ve found magnesium to be really useful too, especially for muscles. It’s great you’ve found a few things that are beneficial for you, Svet. Sometimes it takes a bit of trial and error but it’s worth it if you can get some better zzs. Thank you for sharing – hope you get some good sleeps this week! xx
Great post and tips, as always Caz. Especially as you’ve tried and tested most of them!
Sadly there are times when you can try every single thing & still not get to sleep! I’ve got what I call Stubborn Insomnia ???? When it comes to anxiety though, every little helps just to ease it off a bit. Thanks for the comment, fellow Caz, glad you liked the post! x
Good suggestions Caz! I recently started having trouble sleeping at night. Unless I feel super duper tired, my mind keeps wandering around a lot and doesnt doze off. Hate it! Reading a book and 5 second exercises are my next try outs. Hope you are having happy and healthy day!
I’m sorry you’re having issues with getting to sleep as well, how frustrating. It sounds like your brain is a bit wired, stopping you from settling and sleeping. I personally find reading to be helpful, and probably attempting to tire yourself out a bit could help. I hope you’re better able to empty & calm your mind this week to get some better sleep, fingers crossed! xx
I find that meditation and stretching helps me to have a better sleep. Thank you for sharing!