I just wanted to say a huge Thank You for the wonderfully kind and thoughtful comments and messages we’ve received following my last blog post (a Mini Me update on my mum’s breast cancer diagnosis).
Breast Cancer : An Update
Following her diagnosis of two breast cancers, my mum underwent a single mastectomy, which went well. During the surgery they also took biopsies of the lymph nodes. I’m very glad to say the results were clear, meaning the cancer didn’t spread. As such, she doesn’t need any further treatment aside from continuing with the medication Anastrozole for the next five years, with annual mammograms for the other boob. Things have been a bit up and down since the op, which is to be expected.
She’s contending with heart failure after her heart attack a few years ago, side-effects from the heart medications which are worse than the condition itself, severe osteoarthritis in her knees, and severe spinal problems that cause considerable pain and mobility problems. We’re obviously both incredibly grateful and happy things seem okay now following her diagnosis, but these other things she’s dealing with on a daily basis still take the spotlight. I think that’s why I don’t feel the huge relief I thought I would, because there’s all these other health issues still there, problems to deal with and worry about. A breast cancer diagnosis was the last thing she needed but she’s done very well.
💜 Thank You! 💜
We both wanted to say thank you to everyone who has left comments and sent messages to wish her well. The kindness and good vibes have been gratefully received.
I also wanted to say thank you to all those who read InvisiblyMe and have stuck with me as I’ve been blogging so sporadically over time. Between chronic illness and life, I’ve not had the time or physical ability to write much or be active in the blogging community, certainly not as much as I’d like. I’m hoping to do a little more, but I need to be realistic that it’ll never be what I’d hope because the truth is I simply lose too much time being non-functional and I can never keep up.
Sending Good Vibes Right Back At’Cha
How’re you all doing? I hope life has been treating you kindly lately, though I know so many of you reading this will be struggling yourselves. I want to send hugs and good vibes to those that need them. Please take good care of yourselves. 💜
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Caz ♥
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24 comments
What great news about the cancer. I’m happy that’s behind the both of you. Prayers for her other issues.
Have a blessed day and rest of the week. ♥
Caz, take care of yourself and your mother. I wish you both all the best! At almost 77, I can’t do eveything I would like either, and I know that’s no fun.🌹🌹🌹
Always in my prayers, my dear British friend, along with your Mum and Dad.
❤️&🙏, c.a.
Take care, thanks for sharing… nothing much going on with me, just the same old stuff :\
I think of you often!
Caz, I’m so happy to hear this news. Such a relief to know it wasnt found in the lymph nodes. On top of everything else, that diagnosis was just awful. Both you and your Mum have a lot to deal with.
Do look after yourself, Caz. Don’t worry about your blog. You can be as sporadic as you need to be…blog on your terms.
Take care,
Liz x
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My mother also had a mastectomy very late in life and dealt with it admirably despite all her other health problems! She had thought they should ‘not bother’ operating, but the alternative would have been more unpleasant for her.
Caz, I’m so happy and relieved to hear your mom’s surgery went well! May she continue to make a speedy and complete recovery! You are both surrounded by a community of people who love you and wish you the best! And don’t feel bad you can’t write as often as you’d like! Life, health (physical and mental) and just chores and errands, all of those things get in the way! We’re always happy when you show up! Take care of yourself and mom, that’s what matters the most!
Awww Jay, that’s so kind of you. Thank you for taking the time for such a lovely comment. I really appreciate that. Life can get pretty lonely and the online community is a wonderful respite, so I definitely miss it when I can’t be here much. How’re you doing? I hope the week ahead treats you well. Thanks again 💜
Excellent news about the nodes, but the pain and immobility are issues I wish could be eased. Is there any consideration of injections in the knees—or back?
Please don’t feel bad about not blogging, etc. you surely have enough to contend with taking care of your mom and yourself.
All good wishes,
Annie xxxx
That’s wonderful news about your mom’s successful surgery! I’m glad to learn that she’s on the upswing. You and your mother are so blessed to have one another, but it must be frustrating that your own health issues remain unresolved. Good luck to you and your mother, Caz.
Dear Caz, I’m sending much love to you and your mother. Hearing that great news about the cancer is a relief! I really hope the other things settle down soon and that she feels better. Thinking of you both and wishing you all the best.
Hi Caz, I’m so pleased regarding your mum’s surgery – a little relief at least. You are both survivors. Good vibes coming your way from down-under. 🤗🤗🤗
sending lots of digital hugs to you and your mom xx
Wonderful news about your Mum’s cancer surgery. Sending healing wishes for her other health issues.
Sending you both lots of love and gentle hugs xx
Great news on the improvement, Caz! Take good care! 💕
That’s excellent news, I’m really glad for your mum and you all!
Lulu: “This is great news about your mom! We are keeping up the tail wags all of you!”
Charlee: “And we cats are keeping up the purrs!”
Oona: “And if you need a ninja to steal anything or infiltrate an enemy fortress for you, just let Oona know.”
Good news 👏
Good to hear from you, it’s been a while! I hope you are staying cool during the crazy heat wave!
That’s such encouraging news after what must have been an incredibly difficult time. I’m so glad the lymph nodes were clear and that your mum won’t need further treatment beyond the medication. Wishing her a gentle recovery and brighter days ahead as she regains her strength. Sending love to you both. ❤️
I’m sorry to hear things have been so challenging for your mum lately, and glad they are at last taking a turn for the better. That must have been reassuring news for you both. I hope things continue to move in the right direction <3