There’s no rule book for life, no cheat sheet or players guide. When we’re faced with challenges, we tackle them as best we can. Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose. We’re given choices, big and small, to make all of the time. It’s a case of trying things out, seeing what works, and hopefully learning from each experience.
If we view life as a series of experiments, we see there there’s no linear path and no best way of dealing with life, especially in the case of chronic illness.
We just have to make the most of the situation we’re in and make the best decision for ourselves that we can at that point in time with the information we’ve got. It’s all a learning curve and a case of trial and error.
Don’t be too hard on yourself. The main thing is to keep moving. Keep making experiments, keep trying, keep learning.